When someone confidently speaks in a suit, when someone is generous and elegant, you will find that this person’s life is definitely full of confidence.
The true appearance of your life has long been revealed through your tone of voice.
In this era, money has long become the primary goal we modern people chase after, the only driving force for progress, and of course, the source of all emotions like self-confidence and inferiority.
Actually, I want to say that money is the confidence in one’s life! With money, a person can speak more assertively, and life gains confidence.
Because your tone of voice when speaking exposes the confidence in your life.
Imagine, you are now a poor guy, in front of your relatives and friends, you desperately pretend to maintain your poor self-esteem.
You think pretending not to care about money, pretending to be casual about spending can make everyone believe you are not that poor. But from the moment you started thinking like this, you were wrong, completely wrong!
Because a person’s inner sense of inferiority can never be eliminated through pretense.
A famous psychologist once said, the more a person lacks something, the more they care about it.
While you pretend not to care about money, you have already revealed an extraordinary desire for money. Of course, when facing the topic of money, your tone of voice will also be different.
But on the flip side, when you don’t feel very poor, you won’t care about the subtle sarcasm in others’ words, you may even turn those “sarcasms” into jokes, laugh it off, and not take it to heart.
You may even gain greater wealth and value because of those few jokes!
A truly confident person in life will not feel inferior because of a few words from others.
Everyone says that life is usually not as good as we hope.
Some people live confidently and attractively, full of self-assurance, just a glance at them can deeply attract you; while some people, due to various reasons, feel inferior and avoid social interactions, feeling like a eel in the dark.
The above two examples I mentioned are indeed two extremes, but only in these two extreme situations can we see the different tones and the inevitable connection between tone and life.
I think this inevitable connection is manifested through one’s values, showing up in their tone of voice.
Some people see money as dirt, while others value money greatly, I can’t say who is right or wrong, it’s just a matter of choice.
Tone of voice is indeed something that most directly reflects a person’s upbringing and values! Therefore, in our daily lives, our tone of voice is quietly revealing the secrets deep within us.
Life is a battlefield, those who can win in this battlefield will naturally look at many issues from the perspective of winners, and in communicating with others, they will also impart many successful experiences, and I think because they are winners, their tone of voice will be gentle, making it easier for others to accept.
Conversely, when you don’t care about everything in life, you will naturally have a good tone and attitude towards various aspects of life.
But I personally believe that this tone is a compromise because you cannot currently achieve the level you desire. Temporary compromises are made to recognize reality, find direction, and then go all out.
Recalling the time when John Doe was not as well-known, his way of life was truly admirable.
When he wasn’t as busy, he would devote most of his time and energy to self-improvement. Therefore, I believe that someone who can maintain a pure heart when their future seems so uncertain will also treat others very gently.
Thinking about how I usually treat others, to be honest, there are many times when my tone is not good, but I would blame the other person for the bad tone.
A person’s tone of voice is the confidence in their life.
People who can treat others with a gentle tone will definitely be treated kindly by life.
Material life is the pursuit of each of us, sometimes we work hard to earn money not because we love money so much, but because we hope our lives can be more confident.
With money, we will not appear lowly when facing the outside world, and we will speak more confidently.
Life is fair, everyone’s happiness depends on their own efforts.
A philosopher once said: In life, just doing what you should do well is already remarkable!
If you do your best, stay grounded, one day you will shine in the crowd and have your own confidence.
Happiness may come late, but it will not be absent.