Unknown to many, what do people think about AA (going Dutch) in relationships? I think AA is not wrong in love, as emotions are mutual, and both parties are equal in love. If the guy is willing to pay, it’s his gentlemanly behavior, and the girl should also have the courage and ability to pay for herself.

AA doesn’t lose face; instead, it cultivates independence in both parties in love.

Yang, 25, had no boyfriend, and her parents were worried, thinking she should get married at 25. They kept introducing her to guys, but Yang was resistant because she thought love was her own business, and blind dates were too embarrassing.

However, under her parents’ persuasion, Yang reluctantly agreed to meet a guy. She thought the guy was okay at first, so they exchanged numbers. Her mom was thrilled to hear the news and started matchmaking.

As they got to know each other, Yang developed some feelings for the guy, but she was concerned that he was a “momma’s boy.” He listened to his mom for everything, and his mom even helped him with daily chores.

Yang tried to overlook this, thinking he might change. When they started dating, they agreed on AA. One Valentine’s Day, he asked her out for dinner and a movie. After the movie, they went to a Western restaurant for Yang’s favorite steak.

During the conversation, they seemed to click, but when it was time to pay, he said, “You pay for this meal, my money is with my mom.” Yang was taken aback, thinking, “Didn’t we agree on AA?”

The guy explained that he left his money with his mom, forgot to bring it, and asked Yang to pay this time. Yang was annoyed, paid the bill, and they parted ways.

After that, Yang cut off all contact with him because she realized he wasn’t the one she wanted to marry.

In reality, have you ever experienced similar embarrassment when going out with someone? If a guy can’t take charge of his finances or lacks gentlemanly behavior, it can be a turnoff.

Details matter in relationships. A woman’s heart is delicate, and a man’s attitude can reveal his true thoughts. If you agree on AA, then be a gentleman.

A generous man is more lovable. Although AA is not wrong, it highlights a man’s character. In reality, a man who takes the initiative to pay can make women love him more.

Although many girls can pay, a man’s initiative to pay showcases his gentlemanly behavior. A generous man scores points in a woman’s heart, demonstrating his strength.

A mature man won’t be petty and will be more tolerant in front of women. A man with economic independence will earn more respect from women, leaving a good impression and increasing the chances of a successful relationship.

Don’t be a “momma’s boy.” A man should have his own responsibilities and independence. A mature man is more attractive to women, and his maturity will charm them.

In reality, dating is an essential process in relationships, and the dating process determines the future of the relationship.

As a man, you should showcase your gentlemanly behavior during dates. Only then will the other party develop more feelings for you.

I hope everyone can grasp happiness and love, and not let details ruin love.