When I was very young, I had a very close friend who was over 20 years older than me, but I always felt he was my best friend.

As an only child, I had many people around me who wanted to bully me because they had siblings who would gang up on me.

Whenever I was bullied, this friend would help me like a guardian angel.

When I was in high school, this friend got divorced from his wife.

I couldn’t understand why such a good person would get divorced, and how he would carry on after such a kind-hearted person parted ways.

Later, I asked him:

“When both people’s fate is exhausted, you must be very sad.”

His unexpected response was:

“When a marriage ends, I whisper some words and find peace at that moment.”

Looking into his eyes, I felt he must have treated his wife well in his life. So even though their fate had come to an end, this friend would not be sad because he had done his best and had no regrets.

There are many fateful encounters in life, and many marriages do not have to end.

However, when a marriage reaches its end, one should whisper some words to comfort oneself.

You Will Meet Someone Better

When you invest a lot in a relationship but the other person doesn’t appreciate it, remember that your efforts are not worth it.

A kind person should always be treated well. If someone loyal and considerate isn’t valued, then the other person is blind.

So, losing someone who doesn’t appreciate you is not a loss. If you maintain this attitude in relationships, believe that someone better will come and treat you well.

So, leaving someone who doesn’t know how to be grateful, silently celebrate and bless yourself for meeting someone better in the future.

I Have Given My All

Mr. Wang had a great relationship with his wife.

However, during an earthquake, his wife disappeared while trying to save someone, which was a huge blow to Mr. Wang.

Mr. Wang searched near his home for a long time but couldn’t find his wife. He even went to the mountains far away to look for her but to no avail. For many years, Mr. Wang tried to understand his wife’s thoughts but never succeeded.

Because Mr. Wang was very old, he couldn’t go look for his wife anymore. So, he told himself:

“Perhaps we have truly reached the end of our fate, but I have done my best.”

In many cases, life will tease us too much, and no matter how hard we try, we may not get the desired results.

However, as long as you have done your best for your loved one, even if you don’t meet again, it is happiness for both of you.

Although you are not together, there are no regrets if you have truly tried.

There are many such situations in life. When you lose someone and can’t face it, tell yourself that you have done your best, and perhaps at that moment you will find peace.

Leaving is the Best Choice

Mr. Liu really liked his wife, and they had been together for many years. But his wife never loved him.

During the Chinese New Year this year, Mr. Liu and his wife were eating at the table when suddenly, she got angry, threw utensils and bowls, making a mess at home.

Later, Mr. Liu asked why she was behaving like this and hoped she could calm down. But instead of being reasonable, she wanted a divorce.

Mr. Liu’s wife had been like this before, but Mr. Liu wanted to have a good year, so he tried to calm her down.

However, she didn’t listen, so Mr. Liu angrily signed the divorce agreement.

Later, halfway through the process, Mr. Liu felt a bit sad, thinking that their years of marriage were not easy.

At that moment, Mr. Liu’s mother called and said:

“Your wife breaks things and curses the neighbors every day. Not only that, she doesn’t take care of the children and is not respectful to the elders. You used to scold me for speaking ill of your wife, but now you should know better. Leaving is the best choice.”

Sometimes, if someone is not suitable for you and you end up fighting all the time, leaving is the best option.

In this world, find someone who understands you, has a good personality, and being with them will be twice as effective.

Understand that we should find a partner who can accompany us, comfort our lonely souls, not someone who causes trouble. If a relationship brings disharmony to the family, leaving is the best choice.

When love ends, whisper some words to find peace. Flowers bloom and wither in due time. Keep learning to let go of obsession and move forward.