In real life, we often hear a saying: “A person without quirks is not worth befriending.”
Ancient people also said: “A person without quirks is not worth befriending, as they lack deep emotions; a person without flaws is not worth befriending, as they lack true energy.” The meaning of this saying is that a person without quirks lacks deep emotions, and a person without flaws lacks true energy.
In real life, this saying may not represent everyone, but it does have a certain warning significance.
As the saying goes, “You can’t judge a person’s character by their appearance.” When we interact with someone, we can’t judge their character just by looking at them. We can only distinguish a person’s character from the details.
People with quirks are not necessarily flawed; on the contrary, some people are genuine and worth getting to know deeper. In real life, there are three types of people with quirks who are definitely worth befriending.
People Who Enjoy Fishing and Drinking
In real life, everyone has different hobbies, and hobbies are often used to release the frustrations in our hearts and relax our minds and bodies. People who enjoy fishing are usually very patient.
After work, they choose to go fishing because they want to relax their minds and bodies, enjoy the quiet time with friends, and appreciate the beauty of life.
Those who enjoy drinking a little wine are actually trying to release the pressure in their hearts, chat with friends, and enjoy the quiet time together. Drinking in moderation is not harmful to the body and can even relax and delight the mind.
People who enjoy drinking a little wine are usually friendly and straightforward. They are simple and genuine in their interactions, and being with them makes our hearts feel relaxed and happy.
Fishing and drinking are also hobbies that people enjoy in their free time. It’s a way to socialize with friends and enjoy life.
As the ancient saying goes, “It’s better to enjoy life with others than alone.” This means that people who enjoy socializing with friends are more likely to live a more open and carefree life.
We have a friend who always invites friends to go out for drinks and dinner, even though his wife thinks he’s just looking for excuses to have fun. But in our eyes, this is a way of life. He may enjoy drinking a little wine, but he’s a very honest and upright person.
When interacting with him, we feel comfortable and relaxed. Such people are also very particular about keeping their promises and are willing to communicate with us when we’re under pressure.
People Who Enjoy Tea Culture
As the saying goes, “A great accomplishment is just a cup of tea.” A person who enjoys tea culture is unlikely to have poor character, because tea is a way of life and an attitude towards life.
In the process of drinking tea, we see more of “picking up” and “putting down.” Those who understand these two phrases will live a more carefree life.
As the saying goes, “Tea has only two attitudes: floating and sinking.” People who enjoy drinking tea will also understand the principles of life. They will be more likely to succeed in their careers because they have learned more about life from drinking tea.
Those who enjoy tea gatherings are also more likely to make many true friends. Such people are warm, open, and respectful, and we can learn a lot from them.
People Who Enjoy Hiking and Appreciating Flowers
People who enjoy hiking and appreciating flowers are definitely kind-hearted, as they have a soft heart and treat all things in the world with kindness. In the process of hiking, their minds and bodies are also relaxed and happy.
Such people are more open-minded and make others feel comfortable. Those who appreciate flowers are usually more considerate and understand others’ feelings, and they will show more respect to others in real life.
Hiking and appreciating flowers are also hobbies that people enjoy in their free time. It’s because of such people that we can experience more of life’s freedom and simplicity.
In real life, we will encounter all sorts of people, and we can’t decide who we meet. But we can choose who we want to be friends with, and befriending genuine people will make our lives richer and more colorful.