For every adult, they hope their family becomes wealthier over time and many work hard for it. However, even two families with similar capabilities and starting points may end up with a growing disparity over time.

Even though everything seems the same, why do other families’ lives get better while yours seems to be going downhill?

Sometimes, a family’s prosperity is not solely determined by hard work.

There’s a saying, “If you’re heading in the wrong direction, all your efforts will be in vain.”

This applies to those who focus solely on building their careers outside, neglecting the harmony within the family, which hinders the family from becoming wealthy.

While it’s crucial to work outside, if you don’t accumulate wealth within the family, all the hard work outside will be futile.

As the saying goes, “One who knows how to save money is better than one who knows how to earn money.”

In other words, no matter how much you earn outside, if you don’t save within the family, becoming wealthy is impossible. Therefore, internal factors within the family are crucial.

A family that lacks harmony will struggle to prosper, as unity is crucial.

Some people prioritize their careers but neglect internal family matters, believing that wealth comes from relentless money-making efforts.

In many families, the traditional setup is for the man to work outside and the woman to manage the household. If the woman doesn’t save money, it becomes challenging for the family to prosper.

Therefore, as a man, it’s essential not only to work hard to earn money but also to maintain a good relationship with your wife. A harmonious family, with shared goals and beliefs, is essential for prosperity.

When you bring money home, and your wife knows how to save, pooling resources together, wealth will naturally accumulate over time.

If you can’t reach a consensus on this, no matter how much you earn, if your wife spends recklessly due to anger or other reasons, it creates a leak in your finances, hindering prosperity.

It’s evident how crucial harmony and mutual understanding are in a family.

Observing families that thrive, you’ll notice that couples are united with similar values. Even if you started at the same point, over time, you’ll see some couples doing better.

If a couple is constantly quarreling, it’s challenging to focus on improving the family. Resolving these issues is crucial to progress.

Spoiling children excessively can hinder their development.

In families where parents work hard to provide a comfortable life for their children, they may end up spoiling them due to their own struggles. This can lead to a lack of appreciation for money, fostering wasteful behavior and entitlement.

Many affluent second-generation individuals face challenges because of their upbringing. Overindulgence can lead to a downfall once they exhaust their inheritance.

Even if you’re wealthy, it’s important not to spoil your children but instill in them the right values from a young age. Encouraging positive ideals will help them thrive.

Avoid getting caught up in decadent thoughts and material wealth provided by parents.

As the French educator Rousseau said, excessively pampering a child can lead to their unhappiness.

It’s natural as a parent to love your children, but there should be limits. Excessive pampering can harm the child rather than help them.

After having children, my mother often reminded me, “Show your love in your heart, not just outwardly. Otherwise, they might see your boundaries as flexible, leading to their unreasonable behavior.”

Although my mother had little education, she was strict with us, ensuring we upheld our values. This upbringing helped us maintain our principles and integrity.

It’s crucial to instill the right values in children to prevent negative influences.

A person’s behavior often reflects their beliefs. Some individuals fail to see their flaws because they don’t recognize their actions as problematic.

I once had a conversation with a female friend who questioned why women restrict men from activities like playing mahjong.

While occasional leisure is understandable, if it becomes a frequent gambling habit, it can lead to moral decline.

Her partner’s indulgence in gambling led to their downfall, affecting their relationship and work ethic negatively.

A person’s thoughts and beliefs are crucial, as they can influence future generations.

Children mimic their parents’ behavior, emphasizing the importance of setting a positive example.

Parents play a significant role in shaping their children’s values and behaviors, ultimately determining the family’s prosperity. Failure to provide proper guidance can have lasting repercussions on future generations.

Therefore, a family’s inability to thrive often stems from these internal factors, which play a key role in determining external outcomes.