What is the ideal state for a woman?

It’s to have a life full of stories in her eyes, but no signs of aging on her face. Not envying or mocking anyone, not depending on anyone, just living her life better and better.

We come into this world alone and leave alone. It’s still a solitary journey. Loving oneself, cherishing oneself, and living brilliantly is what a wise person should do.

To live an exciting life in the second half, a woman should not conform.

Mature individuals are independent

Among the multitude, conformity is the norm. Living like everyone else leads to a dull and tasteless life.

There are two women in China’s dance world who stand out: Jinxing and Yang Liping.

Despite their different lifestyles, they both live life on their own terms. They are the masters of their own lives.

These two women are not conformists. Jinxing, also known as Jinjie, is a legend in the entertainment industry. She is truly extraordinary.

Yang Liping, on the other hand, has a quiet presence, almost ethereal. If one word could describe her, it would be: mystical.

Each mature person is an independent individual. Just be the person you love the most.

Embrace solitude, reject mediocrity

In this world, one must either embrace solitude or reject mediocrity. Mediocrity is for those who live for others’ approval, while excellence is for oneself.

As someone once said, “Appearing lonely doesn’t mean true loneliness; conforming can be the real solitude.”

Everyone has their own path and things to accomplish. Adjusting to others means disrupting your own rhythm and making a mess of your life.

But in reality, few have the courage to reject conformity. It takes great courage.

Those who can reject conformity are often extraordinary individuals.

In a scene in a TV show, only one person was present to greet a group of entertainers. This detail shows that those who follow their own path are often distinguished.

In the second half of life, why live unhappily in the eyes of others when you are already middle-aged?

It’s hard to be human, especially a woman. Treat yourself well.

The best state for a woman is to find her true self. When will you live for yourself, after years of living for others—for loved ones, for children?

At fifty, follow your heart.