A hero’s anger can be ignited by a beauty, and a wealthy man will spare no expense to win over a beauty.

It seems that a woman’s beauty has become an important indicator for men when choosing a partner. Although a woman is not a commodity, you can’t deny that in relationships, a woman’s appearance is more important.

As the old saying goes, “A woman’s value lies not in her accomplishments, but in her marriage.” Marriage has a significant impact on a woman’s life, and to some extent, it determines her fate.

Therefore, you can understand why most women who marry into wealthy families are extremely beautiful.

So, when news breaks about fake celebrities in the entertainment circle, these women want to change their social status and fate by constantly packaging themselves.

But the question is, can a woman really achieve a good marriage just by packaging herself well?

External Appearance is a Woman’s Chip

Love is an economy, and it follows the law of equivalent exchange. External appearance is one of the chips in this economy.

A surprising encounter can lead to love at first sight, which is also based on physical attraction. If there’s no external attraction, there won’t be any attachment between two people.

Love is like a seesaw; if the chips are not balanced, you won’t feel the joy of love, and the relationship will eventually fall apart.

For example, a beautiful woman has an advantage, which becomes her chip. When a man marries a beautiful woman, her beauty becomes a chip in their relationship.

When he discovers her flaws, this chip will emerge, and he might forgive her because of her beauty.

Some girls hope to marry a wealthy man, even if they see flaws in him, as long as he can provide a good life. In economics, cooperation can only achieve long-term mutual benefits if both parties have equivalent chips.

In love and relationships, if one party’s chip is lower than the other’s, the party with the lower chip will have to pay more.

External appearance is the most important chip in attracting the opposite sex initially.

So, those “fake” celebrities in the entertainment circle will post pictures of their luxurious lifestyles, high-end products, and sexy photos to gain attention.

What can be packaged? A person’s appearance, figure, and dressing style can all be packaged.

The power of packaging is undeniable, and it’s a social skill and identity declaration. Those girls who try to package themselves to attract wealthy men are actually following a predictable path.

Skills Are Also Important

Those women who package themselves must have learned social psychology. They know how to attract attention, how to maintain relationships, and how to take advantage of opportunities. Those “fake” celebrities might be laughed at, but their methods are effective.

Because love and relationships require not only external conditions but also internal skills.

However, when someone is not interested in your external appearance, they won’t bother to understand your inner self. Emotional connections usually start with external attraction and then move inward.

There are many historical examples of men who have risked everything for a beauty, and these beauties all have one thing in common: their external beauty chip.

What kind of woman do men like? Men will give a uniform answer: beautiful and curvy.

So, for most men, a woman’s beauty is an important chip. For women, becoming more beautiful is an eternal ideal, because no one will give you a second chance to make a first impression.

When you mock those girls who try to package themselves, you must admit that they can indeed attract some people’s attention.

After all, this is a looks-oriented era, and looks are not entirely superficial. They can reflect a person’s state. We just haven’t thought deeply about how these things can be packaged, and packaging can shape external appearances.

Like Yang Dandi, who went from a poor girl to a billionaire, her life has been full of shortcuts, but you can’t deny her unyielding spirit and perseverance.

I’m not encouraging people to be like Yang Dandi, who will stop at nothing to achieve her goals. I’m just saying that packaging oneself can indeed gain recognition, and it’s possible to marry into a wealthy family.

Knowledge and Inner Strength Can’t Be Packaged

Some people will fall in love with you at first sight, and even enter into marriage.

So, those beautifully packaged celebrities are actually making an investment and taking a gamble, with their packaging as the chip and themselves as the target.

However, no matter how hard you try to package yourself, you can only change your external appearance, not your inner self. What supports a person in the long run is not their appearance but their inner strength.

In reality, truly wealthy people won’t show off their wealth on social media. Instead, they will discuss investments, finance, and their recent lives.

Packaging can only create a superficial appearance, and if someone is only with you because of your looks, they might leave you when your beauty fades.

Knowledge and inner strength can’t be packaged, and a person’s aura, which comes from their life experiences, is what truly supports them.

If Yang Dandi’s success is not a coincidence, then her ability to maintain her marriage for over a decade is also not a coincidence.

With a Yale University master’s degree, she has been persistent in her self-discipline and learning. Reading every morning at 6 am and exercising regularly are difficult habits to maintain.

She packaged herself with her education, but she was able to walk steadily and far because she didn’t just rely on packaging; she took the platform as a springboard, actively integrating into new circles, adapting to new identities, and relying on her knowledge and abilities to become a target of global financial giants.

Yang Dandi’s life is legendary and controversial, but you can’t deny her strong will and courage, which are the result of accumulation and sedimentation, not just packaging.

So, external packaging is just a woman’s clothing, but inner strength is what truly supports her.

There might be shortcuts, but shortcuts can only take you halfway. They will never be a lifelong journey.

Final Words

Modern women have the right to pursue material wealth, to choose their partners, and to love beauty and freedom.

Beauty is not a sin.

People strive for high places, and water flows downward; this is the norm.

To truly live freely, women need to enrich their inner selves through their own efforts. Only then can they bear the weight of beauty.

You must bear the weight of the crown before you can wear it. Packaging, no matter how good, can’t replace inner strength.

So, please cultivate both inner and outer beauty, and there will be more possibilities in the future. Spiritual heights can help you transcend your current social status.