Have you ever heard an ancient saying that goes like this:

“At birth, everyone is inherently good. But as time goes by, people change.”

Everyone is born kind, but as time passes, a person can change.

No matter how a person is born, we always hope to meet someone with a kind heart.

Being with someone kind-hearted, you will find many things easy to solve, and it will be relaxing to be around them.

However, in this world, there are both kind-hearted people and cunning ones. You may meet a good person, but you may also meet the wrong person.

In fact, whether someone has a good heart or not depends on these four aspects.

Often, in the third aspect, if someone’s heart is not good, that person is sinister.

Consistency Between Words and Deeds

Some people have good intentions, so what they show on the surface matches what they think inside.

I once met such a person in college. He seemed very nice on the surface, but secretly did things to harm others.

I remember one time in class, he placed many needles on his good friend’s chair.

When his friend sat on the chair, he got pricked by the needles and ended up in the hospital.

Imagine, if someone can do this to a good friend, isn’t it extremely sinister?

If you encounter such a person in life, you must stay away because they may harm you in the future.

However, some people act this way on the surface and think the same way inside. Though these people may offend many on the surface and speak their minds, straightforward people often don’t harm others.

Many fear not a wolf but a smiling tiger.

Someone who smiles at you may actually be a smiling tiger.

Therefore, in life, find someone who is consistent in words and deeds. Such people are less sinister. If someone is inconsistent, keep your distance.

When with someone inconsistent, don’t expose their facade, but also don’t easily engage in important matters with them.

In life, learn to protect yourself. When someone is inconsistent, learn to disguise appropriately.

How They Treat Family

If someone is sinister, they may not treat their family well.

I had a friend who had a boyfriend that treated his parents poorly. Despite this, my friend was very happy, thinking that if he didn’t treat his parents well, he would listen to her in the future.

Many believe that a filial man would listen to his parents for everything, and if not, he would listen to his woman.

But sometimes, it’s not like that. If someone disregards their own parents, do they have any humanity?

A person who can abandon their parents will eventually abandon you too. Therefore, when choosing a partner, it’s crucial to find someone who loves you, but it’s even more important to find someone with a kind heart.

If someone is very filial, it shows they are kind-hearted and unlikely to abandon you.

Enjoying Kicking Someone When They’re Down

In life, many people enjoy kicking others when they’re down.

When someone is in trouble, these people want to make it worse. And when they see others doing the same, they join in.

It’s easy to add insult to injury, but it’s hard to help in times of need.

Often, those who enjoy kicking others when they’re down are especially sinister. When with you, they may seem good, but when you face difficulties, they will only make it worse.

So, if you encounter such a person, make sure to stay away. If one day you face difficulties, these are the people who will hurt you the most.

These people are the most sinister in the world. They may seem nice to you, but when you’re in trouble, you’ll realize their wickedness.

In this world, there are people with very upright values. They handle everything on their own, remain calm, and treat others fairly.

How They Treat the Elderly

If someone doesn’t treat the elderly well, it indicates they are very sinister. In this world, the elderly, children, and women are vulnerable.

If someone mistreats the elderly, women, and children, and bullies them, they are picking on the weak.

In life, you must have a kind heart and treat these vulnerable groups well.

But some people don’t think this way. They may view these people as weak and easy to bully. They wouldn’t dare to bully someone capable, but they dare to bully the weak.

If someone close to you treats you well but bullies the elderly and children, they are not kind-hearted. Stay away from such people.

To determine if someone has a good heart, look at these four places.

If someone is not good in the third aspect, that person is very dangerous.

In life, find someone who treats you exceptionally well, and be cautious when making friends.