Emotional experts say:

“Every woman wants to live a good life, but only a few can achieve it.”

Some women want to be born into a good family, but they’re born into an ordinary family instead. Their parents’ temperaments aren’t great, and they didn’t get to read many books.

Some women want to marry a good husband, but it doesn’t work out. Our Prince Charming never shows up, and we end up marrying an ordinary person.

Some women want to make a name for themselves, but they’re too lazy to take action, waiting for opportunities to fall from the sky. As a result, their lives get worse and worse.

It’s true that:

“Ideal is plump, reality is bony.”

However, some women are born into a good family, and some women marry well despite being born into a poor family.

Some people, despite being born into a poor family and marrying poorly, still work hard to improve their lives.

A woman’s life can be judged by two aspects.

A Woman’s Expenses

I remember having a good friend in middle school. We kept in touch over the years.

When I went back home for Chinese New Year, I had a stomachache and went to the hospital. My friend came to visit me, driving a luxury car and wearing fancy clothes. She brought me food and took care of me for many days.

Although we’d kept in touch, we hadn’t seen each other in years. When we finally met, I was surprised by her transformation.

Many people thought my friend had married a rich man, but that wasn’t the case. In fact, she came from a poor family and had a hard time making ends meet.

Many people didn’t want to be friends with her, but I didn’t mind because I was in a similar situation.

I never judged people based on their family background. I thought she was a kind and genuine person, so I became friends with her.

When we were in middle school, my friend would always look at prices when buying things. Sometimes she would even go hungry to save money.

But when she visited me in the hospital, she was very generous, buying me many delicious foods and wearing expensive jewelry.

So, you can tell if a woman is living a good life based on her expenses.

Later, I talked to my friend for a long time and discovered that she was doing well, having started her own beauty business and makeup store.

I sincerely wished her continued success, and it’s true that sometimes you can change your fate through hard work and make your life better.

When a woman is not doing well, it’s often because she lacks money. As the saying goes:

“Money can make the devil push the mill.”

A woman can only stand tall when she has money in her pocket.

A Woman’s Temperament

I knew an aunt who had a very bad temper. Many people felt sorry for her husband, thinking she must be a shrew at home. However, it turned out that her husband was like a drunkard, always arguing with her when he came home.

Imagine if a man took responsibility and didn’t drink too much, and when he came home, he didn’t scold his wife. The wife wouldn’t get angry, would she?

One time, I saw the aunt crying while walking on the street, probably because of her husband’s behavior.

So, sometimes a woman’s bad temper isn’t because she’s naturally hot-tempered. If she was born with a bad temper, many men wouldn’t want to marry her.

Some women are very gentle, but after marrying, they become like a shrew. This can only mean that they’re unhappy at home and have been oppressed, so they need to vent their emotions through yelling.

If you find a woman who is very gentle, gentle in front of others, and gentle at work, it means she’s a very happy woman at home.

During college, a professor told us a story:

One of his colleagues was criticized by a student, but instead of getting angry, the colleague explained the problem calmly.

Later, the student seemed to gain the upper hand, and the colleague was criticized mercilessly.

The teacher didn’t get angry and thought nothing was wrong. Later, the teacher told others that her family was very happy, and she didn’t have high demands in her career. The student was very hot-tempered, but someone would educate her after she entered society, so the teacher didn’t get angry.

So, if a woman has a very good temper, it means she has a high status at home, and her family treats her well.

Some women who seem very hot-tempered are actually unhappy at home.

A woman’s life can be judged by these two aspects. Some people think they need to do many things to see if a woman is living a good life, but that’s unnecessary, because you can tell from these aspects.