“Marriage is a besieged city; those outside want to get in, and those inside want to get out.”

In real life, marriage is extremely important for a woman. Meeting a loving husband is a kind of luck, and if not, it’s a kind of torture for life.

In love, women often say their IQ drops to zero. Once a woman deeply loves a man, she’ll be willing to give up her principles and bottom line for him.

But in reality, losing oneself is the biggest foolishness.

In a romantic relationship, a woman must have her own bottom line and principles to earn respect and understanding from her partner.

Be a Strong Woman, and You’ll Have a Strong Destiny

Zoe, 37, has two kids and has been married for ten years. She’s still a strong career woman.

Before marriage, she and her husband agreed on a prenuptial agreement: even after marriage and having a family, Zoe wouldn’t give up her career. Her husband supported this point, and eventually, he chose to understand.

Over the past decade, Zoe has managed the family’s daily life and worked on a series of company projects. Although it’s been busy, she says it’s a challenge and enjoyment for her.

She believes the best decision she’s made is not giving up her career after marriage. If she had become a full-time housewife, she’d definitely regret it now.

After ten years of marriage, Zoe isn’t just a stay-at-home mom; she’s a career woman. Her husband respects her greatly, and they discuss every big or small issue together. Zoe feels happy because she has a voice in this family life.

Regarding their children’s education, Zoe and her husband each have their own responsibilities. Besides her husband’s financial support, she also contributes economically. They both regulate their time to accompany their kids, no matter how busy they are.

Principles and Bottom Lines Are a Woman’s Backbone

Now, Zoe has achieved a double success in her family and career, living the life many women desire.

Zoe says that even after marriage, a woman should have her own career, which earns respect from her husband. Keeping her principles and bottom lines makes her husband admire her even more.

Don’t put all your hopes on your partner after marriage, and don’t sacrifice your self-improvement opportunities for them. Women should always strive to be better, and their partners will cherish them more.

Life is like this—no one truly understands you, and no one can truly help you. You must take responsibility for your own life and move forward to make it more beautiful.

Even after marriage, don’t limit yourself to the kitchen; explore more career opportunities and become more refined and charming.

Before marriage, Zoe told her husband, “Don’t touch my bottom line, or I’ll never forgive you.”

Her pursuit of a career is very strong, and this is her only requirement for her husband. Over ten years, her husband’s love has remained, and he respects her more and more in life.

In marriage, women shouldn’t be too submissive; they should learn to be strong, making themselves happier and more excellent. This kind of marriage will have freedom, and being too submissive is actually self-harm.

Many women focus on their husbands and families after marriage, neglecting their own self-improvement. If you meet a man who understands and loves you, your efforts won’t be in vain. But if you meet the wrong person, everything you do will be a waste.

In marriage, the two individuals should always maintain equality. If you’re too submissive, it’ll harm yourself in the end.

In this world, even as a couple, it’s essential to maintain a certain distance.

After marriage, each person remains an independent individual, fighting for their own life and ideals. Don’t put too much time into your partner; only when you learn to love yourself will your partner love you more.

As a woman, remember that you bloom, and the gentle breeze will come; you shine, and the heavens will arrange everything.

In life, every woman has the right to live the way they like. Only when you learn to love yourself will you be respected by others.

Women can’t be beautiful, but their lives must not be mediocre. You must make your life brilliant, and you’ll attract more excellent people.