I recently saw a street interview:

During the interview, a middle-aged uncle sought help from the reporter, and his plea was truly heartbreaking.

The uncle said that after getting married, his sex life with his wife was almost non-existent.

Now that he’s getting older, his marriage is still lacking in intimacy.

One day, he saw the reporter conducting an interview on the street and thought the reporter must have seen many people and might know what to do.

So, he sought help from the reporter, and the reporter offered him three solutions.

Firstly, have money

The reporter said that even if a couple has no sex, as long as they have money, they can solve many problems. In life, having money can make things easier, and it can even salvage a marriage and love.

The reporter suggested that if the uncle felt that he and his wife lacked intimacy, he should try to satisfy her material needs. This way, his wife would be less likely to leave him. If he couldn’t satisfy her material needs, she might think of other ways.

In life, some people can’t satisfy their spouses’ sexual needs, but they don’t go out to earn money, so they can’t provide for their spouses, and eventually, their spouses might cheat on them.

In life, everyone has their own helplessness. If you can’t satisfy your spouse’s sexual needs, they might cheat on you, and it might be your fault.

In this world, except for our parents, everyone’s love has an ulterior motive.

Just like when we’re good to someone, we also expect something in return. Sometimes, even great people need to find a balance in their minds. If they don’t, they might do something bad later.

As a man, if you can’t satisfy your wife’s sexual needs, you should at least have money.

So, men shouldn’t think that sex is the most important thing. If you can’t satisfy your wife’s sexual needs, you should excel in other aspects.

No sex, but have love

A man can lack sex, but if he also lacks love, that’s unacceptable. So, men should give their wives the care and love they deserve.

In reality, everyone in a marriage desires intimacy, and everyone has desires.

However, some men can’t satisfy their wives’ desires and even torment them in other ways. Not only do they neglect their wives’ needs, but they also fail to take care of them in other aspects.

In life, a woman’s desires might be strong, but they’re not as strong as a man’s. If a man can’t satisfy his wife, he should make up for it in other ways, and the woman might understand.

However, if a man can’t get a response from his wife and feels she can’t satisfy him, he shouldn’t think of finding someone else outside. This would betray his marriage and his love, and might lead to a stalemate in the relationship.

So, as a man, you should take responsibility for your marriage, even if you feel helpless. You should remember to be good to the people around you.

As a man, you should understand that if your wife can’t satisfy you, she’s also suffering. You should try to understand her feelings instead of giving her trouble or making her angry.

Maybe one day, your woman will deeply love you and fall into your arms, and she might satisfy you then.

If you have nothing, consider breaking up

At the same time, the reporter said that if a couple has nothing, they should consider breaking up. For example, if they have no sex life, no money, and no love.

In that case, being together would be a form of torture. Maybe they’re only staying together for their children or parents, but each person should live for themselves. If they’re unhappy together, it will affect their family.

Every day, they would feel miserable, and their relationship would be bad, which would influence their family.

You might think you’re staying together for your family, but when your family sees that you’re unhappy, they’ll also feel miserable.

So, if you have nothing, it’s better to break up. In this world, there are many things to do, and you don’t need to be with someone to solve all your problems.

As a human being, you should live a little more selfishly. Our lives are short, and if you spend your whole life in misery, every day will feel like a year.

If you feel that you still have a reason to stay together, and you have something besides sex, then you can consider staying together.

However, if you have nothing, it’s better to break up. Staying together would be a form of torture, and it’s better to live your own life.

Although others might give you some advice, the final decision is still in your hands. You should look at your situation and follow your heart to do what belongs to you.

Since others’ situations are different from yours, their advice is just that—advice. Ultimately, you should make your own decision by considering your feelings and those of your partner.